Certification in Applied Neuroscience: "Non-coachable" Individuals (Level 1B)
Neuroscience-Based Models and Tools for Coaching for "Non-Coachable" Individuals.
Prerequisites
Video 1: Introduction
Identifying "non-coachable" individuals
Identification errors
Toto, I have a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore...
Making room for choosing the right model
Video 2: The two for one element (accountability partner)
Creating a substitute for the client's internal accountability structure
Non-coachable model = Two for one
Needing to wake up non-coachable clients to the need for transformation
The four extreme responses of non-coachable individuals and why they require an accountability partner
The role of an accountability partner when the client has Grandiosity issues
Lack of boundaries - two ways
Critical things to notice about the accountability partner
Modeling, supporting, and guiding the accountability partner
Preparing the accountability partner for push back
Of the two, who is my client?
Video 3: Resistance
How did non-coachable individuals get here in the first place?
Avoiding threat vs. lack of repair
Still Face Experiment: Dr. Edward Tronick (optional)
Expect more variety of CRS and "richness" of deliberate and subconscious manipulations:
Extreme resistance response: It's all about me
Extreme resistance response: Withdrawn versions of non-coachable resistance
Extreme resistance response: Negotiations and ultimatums
Extreme resistance response: "pacifying" behaviors
Extreme resistance response: Dissociated or numb
Extreme resistance response: Self justification
Sources of Self Esteem and resistance to change
The neuroscience of shame (optional)
Change and grief
Learned helplessness from a Neuroscience perspective
Observation and Self Compassion
The addictive nature of resistance
Self-regulating and integration
Experiencing non-coachable clients as threatening
How to connect with non-coachable individuals
How to respond if non-coachable individual does not send examples consistently or at all?
Video 4: CRS and non-coachable individuals
Review - Polyvagal Theory - Neuroceptive Safety (optional)
Polyvagal Theory, integration, trusting ourselves, and the role of CRS
Adoption of skills into the Limbic System, not the PFC
CRS and the Thalamus (optional)
CRS and the resistance of non-coachable individuals
CRS and Bias from a Neuroscience-perspective
Telltale signs of a non-coachable profile
KCI Diagnostic Report - Anon-NC1
KCI Diagnostic Report - Anon-NC2
KCI Diagnostic Report - Anon-NC3
KCI Diagnostic Report - Anon-NC4
Video 5: Coach readiness to work with non-coachable clients
Being triggered as a coach
No agenda or judgment
Using your emotions as a coach to navigate resistance
The vulnerability of the coach and accountability partner
Leaning into the storm - Terry Real
Accountability and non-coachable individuals
A firmer type of accountability
Negotiating moving forward when client has big emotional responses
Beware of the need to save the day: Don't get between non-coachable individuals and their accountability partners